There are some important differences between younger and older women that we will cover.
Understanding these differences and knowing how to use them to your advantage will make seducing older women a satisfying process. One that regularly makes you experience things that would normally be reserved for a "best penthouse" letter.
These are things you should know if you want to meet older women online (try some of these sites and apps that we've had great success with if you haven't) or if you would normally do it in person.
On the surface, it may seem like younger men don't have much to offer an older woman like an established older gentleman would. After all, younger men usually don't have the life experience or purchasing power of someone closer to their age.
If you have these qualities, that's great. But if not, the game is not necessarily over. You can make up for this by showing certain qualities that young men usually have in abundance.
Many older women are attracted to younger men for their natural zest for life, youthful energy, a thirst for adventure and curiosity about new experiences. This also includes your ability not to take yourself too seriously.
These are some attributes that can help older women feel young again. They are also some of the things that older women consider before having sex with a younger man.
This attitude to life is contagious and it feels great to be around. To some extent, we all have a certain nostalgia for the exciting and carefree days of young adulthood.
So if you are thinking about how to seduce a mature woman, you could be the man who makes her feel that way. If you can demonstrate this free spirit, spontaneity and adventurism, party-all-night attitude, you will excite the imagination of many older women.
Moreover, many older women cannot resist the innocent naivety of younger men. They love the idea of teaching life to younger men. So don't be afraid to show curiosity about the parts of your lifestyle that you don't know about.
This certainly beats an older man who knows a lot but is bitter about women and how life has beaten him.
What Older Women Don't Like About Younger Men - And How to Avoid It
The main factor that keeps older women from dating younger men is immaturity. Younger men often lack the emotional maturity to take care of a mature woman. So you better think she'll check to see if you have that. . .
If you show signs of approach anxiety or general nervousness around her, she's probably less forgiving than many younger women.
If you are not able to show the necessary security so that she feels safe and comfortable in your presence, it will be difficult to win her over to you. After all, this is masculinity in a nutshell. It is a must for older women.
However, if you manage to make her feel comfortable and at the same time show the lustful energy of a lively young man, then hardly anything else will stop her. And more often than not, an older woman will fall hard in love with you, right on the spot.
That said, you should fully expect an older woman to make you a little sad when you clearly look younger than her. She needs to test if your house arrest is enough to handle her shit tests.
How will you react if she calls you a "little boy"?"Will you get defensive and fall into their trap? Or will your faith remain unshakable?
Maybe you can give a cheeky grin and laugh at her worries. Maybe you can turn the script around and assure her that she doesn't seem too old to hang out with you. It can only be a smile, strong eye contact and the statement: "So, what do you like about little guys?"
Whatever you do, she wants you to stay in your masculine power in these moments. That's what it takes to be her husband. This is what adult women respect in men, regardless of age.
You need to feel comfortable, so first train online (our favorites)
You can gain a lot of experience in meeting and attracting older women through various online dating sites. When it comes to women over 35, we have two sites that have worked best for us:
If you want something long-term, try eHarmony first. They have the largest number of single older women (35 and older). They've been around for a while, too, so you know they're legal. Give your process a chance and see what we mean.
If you just want sex, then AFF (with a great free trial option) is our go-to place. This site focuses almost exclusively on bringing people together for sex. So do not expect to find a normal relationship here (although it is possible). You can also try them for free, so it's worth giving them a try to see the quality of women in your area (most cities are pretty good).
